Decorum means nothing if you’ve sacrificed productivity to achieve it

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5 min readMay 11, 2020
Horatius Reading his Satires to Maecenas — a painting by Fedor Andreevich Bronnikov, when decorum was about pertaining to style, not a stringent set of classist behaviours.

The fortitude to produce results is often accompanied with a will that blusters, and it can leave others with a toxic aftertaste. Is decorum a tonic, or outdated fluff without depth?

Chuckling, remembering the blast as it landed — a showstopper of an email was sent around a group I once worked for. It spluttered furiously! It spluttered carelessly without an undo, and off it went — sent up from some C-level to the Chairman.

“I appreciate this is your third email to me, and I will respond,”

it stated bluntly. Maybe a little arrogantly…

“…in due time. But - you have cross copied so many who do not need to be in this email chain

[ironically, this message was copied into all those “who do not need to be”]

“…so PLEASE, a little decorum?”

Aligning with the habit for caps was a mistake. Regardless, this message was already laughable as the vast majority of the company now had fresh fodder for the gossip canon. The CXO’s email went on:

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